:: Adios amigos November 28, 2007Posted by Minci 先生 in Love and Relationship.
Preface : Please do not think that it is directed to you. You know who you are. My thoughts are random and this piece have been drafted ages ago.
I was listening to Paul Pott’s version of Cavatina and the immediate images that flashed in my head were scenes in the movie – The Deer Hunter. I find the story a bit confusing sometimes but come to think of it, I wouldn’t mind having another go at watching it again – when time permits. Having seen it on DVD, Jet and I both agree that perhaps the title should be changed to something more clear like ‘Russian Roulette killed my friend’. But not everybody can come up with a good title for a piece of literature, movie or even blog entry do they? Take Yours Truly for example.
Speaking about friendship, the world is never short of stories that illustrates outstanding ones are they? And we could easily find a quote that describes perfectly the type of friendship we have with one person and another. For instance, when I think of Mimie.. the phrase that comes to mind is “Best friends are the sisters that God forgot to give us”. Of course, God never forgets. And when I think of Nad, Jet and other mischievous friends.. its “Laughter is the shortest distance between two friends.”
Friendship with A can never be the same as with B or with C. Oprah says there are Five Friends Every Woman Should Have.
1. The uplifter
2. The travel buddy
3. The truth teller
4. The girl who just wants to have fun
5. The unlikely friend
I personally think that we could at least be that ‘unlikely friend’ to anybody.
[Panjangnya mukadimah. Main Point nya sikit jer]
I Googled ‘Friends should not’ today. Just to see if there’s anything in the internet that could give a list of say, “Don’ts in Friendship’. There wasn’t any. I did this because there was one Don’T that has been a tiny theme in my life for the past few years. That is,
If you’re friends, try not to put him/her in a difficult situation. If possible, never.
Arguably, difficult times put friendships to the test. It can tell you who’s a friend and who’s a foe. But there’s all sorts of ‘difficult situation’ aren’t they? Hmmm.. This is the part where I leave my thoughts hanging. Lantas semua manusia kegeraman dan dipaksa menyambung perbincangan dengan kaedah sendiri.