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:: Love less and less February 9, 2008

Posted by Minci 先生 in Love and Relationship.
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**kepada manusia yang berborak2 dlm komenan blog ini di bawah itu..I go mandi first.. and then I check out again what you guys have been story-ing about.. miahahaha **

I really don’t know why I’m writing this. It just came out at the top of my head. 

Kaiser chief – Everyday I love you less and less 

Story One : JOe was a very successful young businessman and wanted to settle down with a girl of his dreams. Other than a pretty physical appearance, he wanted his future wife to have the right personality. One that would guarantee a lifetime full of happiness and contentment. The ideals of his Missus was of someone from a humble background, doesnt have to be highly educated, better still does not need to have a career of her own, so she could spend more time at home and raise their children.

Many years down the line, they had 8 children and Joe felt that he wasnt leading the blissful marriage life he dreamt. Although the Missus did a great job by caring for him and his children, he felt that between him and her missus.. the passion is lost. There was nothing to talk about. His wife does not understand about the economics of the world, about whats new and trendy except for sales at Giant or Mydin Superstore. He felt ashamed to bring his wife out for dinners or gatheirngs with friends for he worries that she would be out of place and couldnt hold a decent intelligent conversation with Mr John’s wife about the share market. What was he to do?

Hoobastank – The Reason

Story Two : JOe was a very successful young businessman and wanted to settle down with a girl of his dreams. Other than a pretty physical appearance, he wanted his future wife to have the right personality. One that would guarantee a lifetime full of happiness and contentment. The ideals of his Missus was of someone from an educated background. he likes a woman who could stand on her own two feet, who knows how to voice an opinion and stand up for what she believes in. He wants his Missus to follow her dreams and never give up. He admires women with strong voices for he feels that a lady as such is a compatible match.  

Many years down the line, they had 2 children and Joe felt he wasnt leading the blissful marriage life he dreamt. Although the Missus was as passionate as ever in following her dreams, knew all about the current happenings in the world and was apt in making decisions concerning their daily lives.. the passion is lost. His wife was on the road of success so quickly that he felt he was falling behind. His opinion doesn’t matter because she said “This is my dream, you said you would support me through”  He felt threatened to bring his wife out for dinners or gatherings with friends for he worries that she would point out his weaknesses and take over the conversation making him look like a mute husband. What was he to do?

BoyZone – Everyday I Love You

Story 3 : Anum was a humble lady with no formal education. She however ‘compensated’ her lack of A grades in maths or Science in skills like tailoring and cooking. She wanted to settle down with a man of his dreams. Other than a handsome physical appearance, he wanted his future husband to have the right personality. One that would guarantee a lifetime full of happiness and contentment. The ideals of his Abang was of someone who’s graduated from university for she feels that a learned person will know how to differentiate right from wrong and will have the the ‘brains’ to fend herself and their children for the rest of their lives. 

Many years down the line, they had 5 children and Anum felt she wasnt leading the blissful marriage life she dreamt. Although the Abang did a great job by caring for her and her children, she felt that between her and Abang.. the passion is lost. There was nothing to talk about. Abang was too busy. Abang was not interested to know how her day was. Or at least talk about his day at work. Maybe Abang thought that she wouldn’t understand. She doesn’t have that many nice clothes for she was rarely taken out for a social evening. Even if she could go out with her friends, her husband forgets to give her extra cash (onlygive for house spending) for her outings.   What was she to do?

Christine Aguilera – The Voice Within

Story Four : Anum was a very successful young lawyer and wanted to settle down with a man of her dreams. Other than a handsome physical appearance, she wanted her future husband to have the right personality. One that would guarantee a lifetime full of happiness and contentment. The ideals of her Abang was of someone from a similar background, highly educated, successful with a career of his own, in the hope that he would understand her life as a career woman.

Many years down the line, they had 3 children and Anum felt that she wasnt leading the blissful marriage life she dreamt. Although Abang did a great job by constantly urging her to be succesful, she felt that between her and Abang.. the passion is lost. She felt stressed for having to keep up being a superwoman handling both domestic responsibilities and work. She worries that he would love her less if she was not as exciting or bright as she was before, who was always coming up with interesting facts to say (she had the time previously to ‘educate herself’ by surfing the net/reading papers.. but now with a family?). What was she to do?

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1. Puteri Nad =( - February 9, 2008

well,in each and every situation u had provided here,it just confirmed the glaring mistake of human being, the unsatisfied feeling, altho in reality that’s the best situation they can be in

no 1:
heck joe, u wanted a missus wif not so high acad background,there u got it. with 8 children masih x puas hati? man,anda adalah golongan orang x bersyukur. find the praying mat..i hope u wil do the right thing for ur 8 kids. omg 8 bin and binti joe x bersyukur

no 2:
joe ,kamu ada masalah. better jumpa shrink. inferiority complex is treatable nowaday

no 3:
pn anum, saya bangga dengan pn anum,sbb pandai menjahit.i believe ur abang has someone else in his workplace..matila too much di celah celah kehidupan. :p

no 4:
after many years of marriage,couple usually dvlp this menerima seadanya..maka anum don weri,if ur husband is a good man,he will still be interested altho ur mind might not be as agile as b4.don worry too much la..

last but not least

too much love can kill u [xde kene mengena,yet lagu yg best]

2. memincikun - February 9, 2008

Pppp….alamak! Den nak buat whistle, tak jadi lak, mulut den penuh ngan kacang. Hmm…den rizab komen, tak pandai hal ni semuo. Lagipun, nak tengok hero jawab.

Er…Puteri, ekau jomput den poi blog, tapi takdak link pun!

3. Puteri Nad =( - February 9, 2008

blog ku dan hero adalah sama..jempot jempot

4. hero de vivre - February 9, 2008

urm
no 1 : joe jahat, rasa malu ngan isteri dia yang did well dlm raising their children gamaknye, he’s the one who’s chosen her hence dont get ashamed of her, education isnt everything, hati dan perasaan membawa kebahagiaan ke tua

2 :missus is one superlady yet being one doesnt qualify ko nak point out kesalahan segala, be like a wife and not the husband

3 abg is horrible, one example of ketidakcaringan dalam kebajikan isteri segala, he’s educated yet dlm kepala sajor, hatinya tidak teredukasi, he should be hanged not hung

4) itu yang kaw pikir je anum, pls be honest to your husband

conclusion : a saksesful mariage adalah bersandarkan kepada honesty and purity, keunderstanding-an, dan jua toleransi + bertanggungjawab sebelom kawin sila cek ada a lot in common selain pasangan itu adalah seorang yang memahami

5. kaSyah - February 9, 2008

cik minci, aduh….lajunye new entri. i gonna catch up with u nnti. bertubi-tubi hal nak kena settle ni. give u next comments later later…see ya

6. Puteri Nad =( - February 9, 2008

c u dia

7. memincikun - February 9, 2008

Baco komen hero, lagi den poning. Takpolah, den mengaku tak pandai. Yang den tahu, kalau den nak ambil isteri, den solat istikharoh. Lopeh itu kito adjust lah mano yang patut, terutama diri sondiri.

Manusio ni, hendak tak nak, melalui perubahan dalam kehidupan. Hendaklah kito ni sentiaso bermuhasabah diri sendiri…takdak manusio yang porfect. Yang gagah sekarang akan jadi lomah, dan yang lomah bertambah kuat. Yang tak pandai jadi pandai, dan yang pandai pulo menjadi pendidik kepado keluargo. Apo pun, realiti check kito – cam hero kato tu ha – adolah kek solat. Bilo kito rukuk dan terutamo sujud, sepatutnyo kito sodar diri kito sapo. Tapi sujud tu biorlah lamo sikit yo.

8. hero de vivre - February 9, 2008

ooo
terus berteleku (sama ke erti ngan bertelekung) di atas karpet aneka warna tanda insaf

9. Minci - February 10, 2008

nad,
too much love can kill ey? ha ha
speaking of inferiority complex, I’ve learnt that some people cover it up by displaying a superior-like personality. Too bad it’s see through

memincikun,
precisely, we need a reality check every so often to keep us on the right track

baez,
a lot in common.. interesting point.canteknya karpet aneka warna.. i thot its ur sejadah yg kalerful2 nih

kasyah,
hehe.. itu kebuhsanan namanya
its OK..settlekanlah urusan mu dulu.. nanti2 blh jenguk sini lagi.. by the way, tk lama lagi aku dah nk balik.. jgn lupa ya..

10. hero de vivre - February 10, 2008

ahaha sejadah kaler warna warni gak
karpet pon!


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